The Chardmore Society is a friendly little group – many of us know each other socially, outside of the parties. Newcomers always find us very easy-going and they quickly feel relaxed. There is definitely not a hardcore atmosphere and there is never any pressure to play. One of my own favourite parties is the one for men in formal suits, with their female partners naked. 

So what exactly happens at these parties? 

The Suited Male – Naked Female parties are for couples who enjoy the dynamic of the man in a smart suit, with his wife or partner naked. So, couples who like to spend a few hours with the man in a dominant role, among like minded people, in a BDSM setting. 

The dress code is strict. Men are not admitted unless they are in a formal suit, dinner jacket or smart uniform. Women often wear stockings and heels, needless to say, or maybe a collar and leash, or perhaps a corset. Anything like that is fine, but the women must be essentially more or less naked. 

You don’t have to be slim and gorgeous to attend our parties. This is not a beauty contest. (It’s a few years since I was slim and gorgeous, I can tell you.) We just look for nice people. 

There are no single men at this party, so women may relax with their loving partner. It is not a swinger party. 

When you arrive, one of us (usually me) will show you around and introduce you to a few couples. There’s a kitchen, where you can store any booze you have brought along. (We don’t sell drink, so please bring your own.) You can also make tea and coffee – we do provide that! There will usually be people socialising in the kitchen, just as they do at any party. 

Then we will show you to a lounge, where people sit and chat. There will be a suitable DVD playing, but no loud music. A hallmark of The Chardmore Society is that you can chat without having to raise your voice. You can actually meet and make friends with people.

There is a dungeon, with quite a lot of BDSM equipment, including a whipping bench, cage and St Andrews Cross, etc. Soft atmospheric music plays. You can practise bondage, spank your slave, put them on the cross or in the cage. If you need it, help and advice is available from us. Otherwise, we are happy to leave you alone.

Then there are four other rooms, which would originally have been bedrooms. I usually put some item of BDSM equipment into these rooms. My favourite is the motorbunny, which is like a superior version of the sybian. Women love the motorbunny; you can see it here http://kfsmagazine.com/motorbunny/  If you bring a smartphone, you can download the free app and find the right rhythm to send your partner into ecstasy. Just so long as you wear a suit while doing it…

There’s also a changing room. There’s a shower that you are welcome to use and plenty of clean towels. Just in case you get a bit sweaty…

You can wander around the rooms, chat with other couples, just generally hang out. You may want to play, but that’s up to you – there is no obligation to do anything at all. Just to relax and have fun is fine.

What else? Well, there are rules…

*No smoking or vaping in the building, of course.

* No drugs of any kind at all – don’t even think about it. 

* No photography. 

* If you are playing in one of the rooms, don’t lock the door. Another couple might like to come in and then it’s up to you to wave them away, or allow them to watch, just as you wish. Your choice.

If you would like to go onto my Chardmore Society party mailing list, or if you have any questions. just email me at  chardmoresociety@icloud.com

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